How to flirt with BBW: mistakes which you should avoid to get lucky!

The questions about flirting are very popular because this science depends on experience and many other features. The thing that it depends on in every single case is the girl. Flirting which is possible with one girl seems to be impolite with another girl. First of all, it would be important to help you understand what the real meaning of flirting is. It is a mistake to think that flirting is possible only with the target of sex. The thing is, there are many kinds of flirting and as a result, we can find a lot of targets it leads to. So, the main idea for us is going to be “making circumstances to be closer.” If we are talking about a BBW girl, it would be important to mention that the main target is to overcome the barrier of fear. Most of the women in this category have their own mental problems which are based on the sometimes rude and impolite society’s attitude toward their appearance. Anyway, flirting has many grades and today we are going to learn about them from the position of someone who wants to get the attention of a BBW girl.

Before flirting: preparations

At first, it would be important to fix the borders. It will help you to realize all of the topics which are possible to use. In case you are attempting to flirt with a BBW, there are some rules which you should follow.

They are:
– You shouldn’t pay attention to her weight questions:
Even if she loves her body, such phrases like “I love fat girls” are going to be rude. If you want to pay attention to the fact that you find her attractive, it is possible to use the conversation about her amazing talents that make her clothes look even better. Try not to emphasize the weight of a BBW girl; it can be a touchy subject for some.

– Don’t touch the topic of previous partners:
Most of the women and BBWs are not an exception: they don’t like to touch this theme. It could bring sad memories and in that situation, there will be no possible way back. Flirting, as a result, will not be effective.

– Food and sport should be avoided too
It is not sexy to hear something about activities you may not be able to participate in if you obviously are overweight.

Definition of flirting

The real definition of flirting is not something that you used in your BBW dating apps. It is an art which should be respected.

The act of flirting brings many advantages to participants:

  • it helps to make another potential partner understand what you think about him or her;
  • it helps to compare compliments with interesting conversation;
  • it is a good method to help create circumstances for touching each other;
  • it is a kind of preliminary caressing which sometimes has a better impact on women; it is even better than sex for some women in some cases.

Even if your live embodiment of BBW meets BBC, you should know that flirting and skills in this area could make any man look better. It is not easy to find a girl who doesn’t like to flirt.

Shade of flirting

Now let us explain all shades of a flirt. In fact, they could be learned as the steps which follow to the main target.

So, here they are:
– Flirt as the observation.
It is the step when you create circumstances to learn her reaction. For example, if you made a little joke about her job and you found that this fact made her laugh, it is a good sign to continue with that. On the other hand, if one topic made her visibly uncomfortable, you shouldn’t touch that topic anymore.

– Active phase.
This is the step which comes right after you already understood all of the features of your partner. You should try to bring sexual context into all topics if the goal is to move in that direction. For example, it would be possible to ask her if she ever had sex at her work. The reason – you are interested in knowing if it is possible that such an erotic woman has never had sex at work because her attraction is so high. Even if that will bring her embarrassment, she will learn from this phrase that you think that she is very hot. At the same time, she will learn that you are interested in sex with her, but it would be covered with a polite phrase. The thing is that women can be pretty shy and you shouldn’t use the straight formulation of your desires.

– Advanced phase.
This stage is all about touching. The main rule – don’t touch her breast, hips, and booty. All zones should be polite. It will bring her to understand that you are a gentleman and at the same time it is the perfect way to make her horny. The thing is that such kind of touches paired with the right chosen speech brings an awesome effect.

Flirt for sex or not

The thing is that the next step after flirting depends on your preparations. If you have wondered about sex, you should make the phase of touching longer. Read about the erogenous zones of women and use this information in your practice.