Possible mental problems and some rules to avoid rudeness with BBW!

Another important theme, if the main theme of our discussion is BBW, is mental health and some rules which could help you to keep the balance in your relationships without any rudeness. The thing is that people can’t often understand the real problem. They can’t even imagine what the real circumstances are inside your relationships with someone and as a result, two people can’t find the balance. If you are another BBW adorer, it would be necessary to learn everything about the mental features which belong to this group’s women. You should know that the pressure which is possible to feel from a society that is always directed to people who are different from the majority. As you can already guess, being overweight is another one difference and people with this feature seem to always be under pressure. Every one of us has our own attitude about everything that is possible in our life. It means that we have different reactions which influence our mental health. At the same time, even the strongest man who, during a long period of time, was under the social pressure could break. Just imagine that you have a double dose of attention every day and people around you judge you just because of the way you look. It is not easy to live with that and today we are going to discuss the possible effects and rules which will help you to create a support system for your BBW.

Broken mental health – is that normal or not

The main subject of our discussion is BBW. We already learned that these women are always under societal pressure and even the healthiest one could have a mental breakdown from this pressure and stress. So, you should be ready for some effects which such kind of people could have. Here are most common of them:

  • Lack of self-confidence

This problem can come even to the most beautiful and strongest of people. The basis of this problem is a judgment which she always receives from people around her. It is a normal reaction, but it could have different embodiments. For example, public attention could make a person create a wall to protect her own world. It could be fake power but this person will try to demonstrate it in every case, just to protect her from society’s aggressiveness. You should know that it is not easy to solve this problem, especially if we are talking about the case when the excess weight came very early in her life. Such people are very vulnerable and the best way to make them relax is to show them that you have enough power for both of you.

  • Some fears

When BBW people meet someone, they always have fears which are directed toward the relationship. The thing is that society can’t accept this difference and sometimes it is embodied in aggressiveness. They are normal reactions if we stop and put ourselves in their shoes. The thing is that fear helps to keep us away from possible damage. It is a kind of mental protection which helps to make the right choice. At the same time, it could be the main problem on the way to starting a relationship and stopping her from understanding that you are very serious. However, the fear is possible to erase with your actions.

  • Obsessions

It could be an obsession of hers to lose the weight, to keep away from skinny people or something like that. It is another reaction to the judgment. You should understand that all reactions are just attempts to keep her away from troubles.

How to be polite

There are some recommendations which are going to help you keep correct and appropriate behavior and avoid all possible rudeness which can make BBWs feel uncomfortable.
1 – Don’t even “touch” the topic of her weight.
That will help make her feel the same way as the people around both of you. As a result, the understanding of the fact that your attitude to her has no difference from others will bring relaxation.
2 – Don’t ask about her problems in society, which have links to her weight.
If you are worried about her, just explain that you can support her and that she will always find safety with you.
3 – Avoid topics which are close to the topic of being overweight.
For example, don’t talk about food and a lack of physical activity.

How to make her feel comfortable

If you decided to erase all of her mental problems, there are some steps which you should follow too. They are:

  • Make her understand that your interests and love are real.
  • Explain that you are a man and you have enough power to protect her – that will help her to relax her defense.
  • Don’t be shy to introduce her to your friends and family – their support of your relationship will help her to understand that she is important.

You should always remember that she is often an object of discussion even to strangers and this position in society is not very pleasant.

So, as you can see mental changes are a natural reaction to our health which is trying to protect us from damage. At the same time, it is possible to provide circumstances when your BBW will feel most comfortable.

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