Possible mental problems and some rules to avoid rudeness with BBW!

Societal pressures, childhood abuse, and bullying cause BBW to experience mental health issues. Additionally, excessive weight can be caused or increased by mental health problems which expand the number the sufferers in the BBW community. Keeping with that theme, you may need to approach BBW with extreme politeness. Achieve balance in your BBW relationships by finding understanding and sidestepping rudeness.

Looking in from the outside, people make assumptions that don’t have the whole story. They can’t even imagine the real circumstances inside your relationship.

If you are a BBW adorer, educating yourself about mental pressures can improve your chances of a functional relationship. Being overweight is a visible flaw that bullies attach too. Combined with mental illness and it is an equation for disaster.

Extra weight is an obvious difference for BBW to be attacked on. Everyone experiences different reactions to pressure that influence our mental health. Even the strongest man exposed to social pressure can break mentally.

Imagine you have a double dose of attention every day and people judge the way you look. Today we will discuss the effects and rules to will help you create a support system for your BBW.

Broken mental health – Is that normal?

BBW are under immense societal pressure to conform to beauty standards. Overweight women are less likely to be promoted at work, be married, and be financially secure than average sized women. This is partly because weight discrimination is widely practiced in corporate settings and dating circles. Even the healthiest lady could have a mental breakdown from this pressure and stress.

Be prepared for some common mental disorders to overcome if you embark on a relationship with a BBW, like:

  • Lack of self-confidence

Woman are bombarded with imagery from the media, the entertainment industry, and their daily interactions showing them they aren’t worthy of love or respect. It is completely acceptable in our culture to dismiss a woman because she is fat. If she was a chubby kid, the self-esteem issues are compounded and deep set in her psyche. Public attention makes a person build emotional walls to protect her sensitivity. You can burst through those barriers with love, kindness, and patience — but it will be a challenge. Before a BBW opens up to you, you will have to prove you’re trustworthy and will not hurt her. Most BBW have a painful ex in the past that took advantage of their low self-worth.

Her vulnerability can be an asset once you demonstrate you appreciate her soul, not just her body.

  • Fear of commitment

One way BBW have learned to cope with the constant judgment is by avoiding true intimacy. They may push away your advances if you try for a long-term commitment. In their traumatized brains, it feels safer to break off the connection than risk going deeper and being hurt. It’s understandable to have this fear when you have been disappointed and burned in the past. However, it could negatively affect your future relationships with the BBW if she doesn’t deal with this issue.

  • Obsessions

Obsessions are the human brain’s way of dealing with unresolved issues. A BBW could show OCD signs related to her weight, a phobia of skinny people, or she could have obsessions unrelated to her body (but rooted in self-esteem issues). You should understand that the reactions are just attempts to keep her away from troubles.

How to be polite

  • Don’t even “touch” the topic of her weight.

Newsflash: she knows she is fat. No need to bring it up because you can’t win. A positive comment will be discarded and a negative comment will feed into her existing insecurities. Instead, stick with comments and compliments on her inner beauty or individual features (nice butt, pretty eyes, flashy smile, etc).

  • Don’t ask about her problems in society.

If you are worried about her, just explain that you can support her and that she will always find safety with you.

  • Avoid topics related to being overweight.

For example, don’t talk about food and a lack of physical activity. Commend her cooking skills, but never say “Are you going to eat that?” or “I thought you were dieting.”

How to make her feel comfortable

If you decided to attempt to ease her mental problems, there are steps which you should follow too. They are:

  • Emphasize that your interests and love are real.
  • Explain that you are a man and you have enough power to protect her.
  • Males may have been the source of pain and trauma in the past.
  • Don’t be shy to introduce her to your friends and family. It will help her to know you are proud of her.

You should always remember that she is often an object of discussion even to strangers and at a position in society is not very pleasant.

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