What are the perspectives of relationships with BBW: real social progress!

In the BBW arena, supporters, adorers, and participants collide with social pushback and judgment. Lovers of BWW community are the modern day soldiers for tolerance and BBW acceptance. Even just proudly loving a BBW is a radical movement towards collective change. A few short years ago, showing pride in a fat body was unheard of. Today, the Internet is flooded with free dating sites for BBW. Men want the BBW meet and they are no longer forced to go into the dark underground to find the relationship that meets their innermost desires. As we shed shame in our bodies, the world evolves to a higher vibration.

Individual liberties are accepted and private choices are respected with less judgment. Decades ago gay, lesbians, and bisexuals couldn’t be open about their sexuality. Fat lovers are following in their footsteps. Early on, people were forced to hide their preferences which left the masses unfulfilled. In the current climate, increasing numbers are coming out as LGBTQ or embracing non-traditional relationship models like polyamory. Supporting BBW and declaring affection for our big lady friend should no longer be a shocking statement to make.

Today freaks and geeks emerge from the shadows to beam their light towards the BBW community. Yet, prejudices still persist against the fat. Body positivity is complicated by the evidence that being overweight is bad for your health. Like smoking cigarettes or heavy alcohol use, many people view obesity as a character flaw driven by bad choices. What some fail to comprehend is that everyone makes bad choices and we should be more forgiving of each other’s sins.

Read on to learn how to support the progression of BBW tolerance.

Forecast: Tolerance predicted to win

The continents of the world’s progress is not consistent. Different countries have their varying attitudes. For example, in Russia, the government has declared being gay illegal. Such positions aren’t directly connected to people who are overweight, but we should learn that tolerance means a positive attitude without judgment regarding all turfs without exceptions.

The most tolerant country in the world is Australia. The continent used to be a dumping ground to British prisoners and outcasts. The generations to follow were largely all immigrants, building a baseline of tolerance. When you are outcaste yourself, you have empathy for the dismissed and forgotten. Today, Australian society has a friendly attitude towards all classes that can be modeled across the planet. We can emulate to understand bigotry against the BBW as well.

Observing third world countries, we find tolerance propagates only in their own, dominant race. For example, the attitude to someone who is black and overweight and someone who is white and fat in Zimbabwe differs. The country is a majority poor and black. The population in poverty don’t have the privileges of becoming overweight because they struggle to feed their families. The white wealthy class are the only people carrying extra pounds so being overweight has come to be equivalent to the oppressor.

Tolerance and its progress

We can’t ignore the fact that many countries are moving forward toward tolerance. Historically, with every generation comes more acceptance of humanity’s differences. BBW will be part of that movement. We can play our role by maintaining an open mind, being proud of who we are, and speaking up for those who don’t have a voice. Other than that, time will prove to continue with a more tolerant society.

Increasingly, the human race is grasping that prejudice isn’t helpful. It only exists as a mechanism to control or oppress segments of society. Those who try to leverage hatred to gain power are always overthrown in the end. You will find tales of these losers in any history book.

How to support BBW tolerance

Help BBW on their way to full tolerance and stop judging. When we operate automatically without any self-reflection, we can easily be wrapped up in others thoughts and not our own. Humans are sheep like in their ability to follow the crowd. Be the black sheep, or better yet, be the Shepard. If you want a solution to the problem, you can:

explain to people around you that everyone should be able to make their own decisions and that it is not polite to judge someone who is overweight;
support public organizations fighting overweight baiting.
You shouldn’t be afraid to protect these innocent people and your example will be the best support for them.

Modern society is trying to ruin the ancient stereotypes of judgment. This change will not happen quickly but if you want to reach comfort in your relationships with BBWs, both of you can support progress.

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